I’m working on a new book, and I’m hoping my readers will help me out. Specifically I’m looking for your list of 10 things that turn you on and off sexually. I’m also looking for people (all genders) to interview, so email me at athenaiwg@gmail.com if you are interested. To get the conversation rolling, here’s my list.
TEN THINGS THAT TURN ME ON
- Men who make me laugh
- Someone who makes me feel like I’m the only woman in the world.
- Someone who, when we’re out for dinner, slips me a hotel key because he can’t wait to have me
- Intelligent, curious, articulate men who know when to speak and when to be silent
- Someone who understands my intense need for solitude
- A man with a rich fantasy life who is eager to act on it
- A man who asks me to look at him when I come
- Generosity
- The preparations of slipping on fishnets, securing them with a garter belt, and lacing up a corset for a man who appreciates the effort
- The juxtaposition of male and female bodies
TEN THINGS THAT TURN ME OFF
- Hypochondria
- A man who collects disappointments instead of discoveries
- Poor hygiene
- Narcissists
- Someone who says, Oh, we couldn’t” instead of “Why not?”
- Lederhosen and knee socks
- Anyone who continuously talks about the girl who got away
- Lying
- Physical awkwardness and sexual timidity
- Slurpy, sloppy eaters
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